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See, that’s what the app is perfect for.

Sounds perfect Wahhhh, I don’t wanna
smallfrogpleasedtomeetyou

Don’t ever hesitate. Reblog this. TUMBLR RULE. When you see it, REBLOG IT.

wundersimp

The original post only has US helplines. I’ve added UK helplines underneath. It would be great if people could add numbers from everywhere in the world.

Depression Hotline: 1-630-482-9696

Suicide Hotline: 1-800-784-8433

LifeLine: 1-800-273-8255

Trevor Project: 1-866-488-7386

Sexuality Support: 1-800-246-7743

Eating Disorders Hotline: 1-847-831-3438

Rape and Sexual Assault: 1-800-656-4673

Grief Support: 1-650-321-5272

Runaway: 1-800-843-5200, 1-800-843-5678, 1-800-621-4000

Exhale: After Abortion Hotline/Pro-Voice: 1-866-4394253

Child Abuse: 1-800-422-4453

UK Helplines:

Samaritans (for any problem): 08457909090 e-mail jo@samaritans.org

Childline (for anyone under 18 with any problem): 08001111

Mind infoline (mental health information): 0300 123 3393 e-mail: info@mind.org.uk

Mind legal advice (for people who need mental-health related legal advice): 0300 466 6463 legal@mind.org.uk

b-eat eating disorder support: 0845 634 14 14 (only open Mon-Fri 10.30am-8.30pm and Saturday 1pm-4.30pm) e-mail: help@b-eat.co.uk

b-eat youthline (for under 25’s with eating disorders): 08456347650 (open Mon-Fri 4.30pm - 8.30pm, Saturday 1pm-4.30pm)

Cruse Bereavement Care: 08444779400 e-mail: helpline@cruse.org.uk

Frank (information and advice on drugs): 0800776600

Drinkline: 0800 9178282

Rape Crisis England & Wales: 0808 802 9999 1(open 2 - 2.30pm 7 - 9.30pm) e-mail info@rapecrisis.org.uk

Rape Crisis Scotland: 08088 01 03 02 every day, 6pm to midnight

India Self Harm Hotline: 00 08001006614

India Suicide Helpline: 022-27546669

Kids Help Phone (Canada): 1-800-668-6868, Free and available 24/7

suicide hotlines;

Argentina: 54-0223-493-0430

Australia: 13-11-14

Austria: 01-713-3374

Barbados: 429-9999

Belgium: 106

Botswana: 391-1270

Brazil: 21-233-9191

China: 852-2382-0000

(Hong Kong: 2389-2222)

Costa Rica: 606-253-5439

Croatia: 01-4833-888

Cyprus: 357-77-77-72-67

Czech Republic: 222-580-697, 476-701-908

Denmark: 70-201-201

Egypt: 762-1602

Estonia: 6-558-088

Finland: 040-5032199

France: 01-45-39-4000

Germany: 0800-181-0721

Greece: 1018

Guatemala: 502-234-1239

Holland: 0900-0767

Honduras: 504-237-3623

Hungary: 06-80-820-111

Iceland: 44-0-8457-90-90-90

Israel: 09-8892333

Italy: 06-705-4444

Japan: 3-5286-9090

Latvia: 6722-2922, 2772-2292

Malaysia: 03-756-8144

(Singapore: 1-800-221-4444)

Mexico: 525-510-2550

Netherlands: 0900-0767

New Zealand: 4-473-9739

New Guinea: 675-326-0011

Nicaragua: 505-268-6171

Norway: 47-815-33-300

Philippines: 02-896-9191

Poland: 52-70-000

Portugal: 239-72-10-10

Russia: 8-20-222-82-10

Spain: 91-459-00-50

South Africa: 0861-322-322

South Korea: 2-715-8600

Sweden: 031-711-2400

Switzerland: 143

Taiwan: 0800-788-995

Thailand: 02-249-9977

Trinidad and Tobago: 868-645-2800

Ukraine: 0487-327715

justmemyselfandthefridge

Here’s some Canadian ones too!

Canada Suicide Prevention Service: Call: 1-833-456-4566 (24/7) or text: 45645 (4 pm to 12 am EST) 

Kids Help Phone: Call: 1-800-668-6868 or text CONNECT to 686868.

First Nations and Inuit Hope For Wellness Help Line: 1-855-242-3310

Transgender Crisis Line: 1-877-330-6366

And then don’t forget about 911 as well! 

midnigth-thoughts

Please reblog. This is important!

artist-in-too-many-fandoms

Reblog this please, somebody might really need it!

im-actually-useless69

I may not be able to spread the message much but still i will try. If you are in any trouble please get help you need. I care about you and love you.

sips-tea-cutely

National Suicide Hotline (English, Spanish): 800-273-8255

TherapyRoute (24 Hours, Philippines):

  • PLDT: (02) 804-4673
  • Globe: (0917) 558-4673
  • Toll-free for Globe/TM: 2919
  • Helpline: 0917-854-9191

Tawau Paglaum—Centro Bisaya (Cebu):

  • (939) 937-5433
  • (927) 654-1629

The National Center for Mental Health Crisis Hotline (PH):

  • Telephone: (02) 989-8727
  • Cellphone: (0917) 899-8727

China:

  • Helpline 1 (Free): 0800-810-11@7
  • Helpline 2 (Mobile/IP/extension users): 010-8295-1332

Japan:

  • Helpline 1: 03 5774 0992

Malaysia:

  • Helpline 1: (063) 92850039
  • Helpline 2: (063) 92850279
  • Helpline 3: (063) 92850049

Singapore:

Thailand:

  • Helpline 1: (02) 713-6793


India:

United Kingdom:

  • Samaritans: 08457 909090
  • Childline: 0800 1111
  • Abuse Not: 0808 8005015
  • Brook Young People’s Information Service: 0800 0185023
  • Eating Disorder Support: 01494 793223
  • Anxiety UK: 0844 477 5774
  • Depression Alliance: 0845 123 23 20
  • Rape Crisis Centre: 01708 765200
  • Rape/sexual assault: 0808 8000 123 (female) or 0808 8000 122 (male)
  • Miscarriage Association: 01924 200799
  • LLGS Helpline (LGBT): 0300 330 0630
  • Sexuality support: 01708 765200
  • Bereavment: 0800 9177 416
  • Runaway/homeless: 0808 800 70 70
  • CareConfidential Pregnancy/post abortion: 0800 028 2228
  • Domestic Violence Helpline: 0345 023 468
  • National AIDS Helpline: 0800 567 123
awakefor48hours

I will reblog this as many times as possible, I recommend anyone reading to do the same

ghostenluvs

you guys better reblog!!!

evilwriter37
gayshitanddadjokes

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What the fuck is this??????????

Folks: you CANNOT censor trigger tags. When you block a tag, it doesn't block other "spellings" of it. Writing it as "r@pe" or "r4p3" means that someone who has "tw rape" as a blocked tag will still see that post because you didn't wanna say the word rape. You are hurting people. Do not censor words, because people do not have those filtered out.

And honestly if you can't even write the word rape to protect other people then you probably aren't old/mature enough to be on this website.

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evilwriter37

Anonymous asked:

So whenever your disability pride flag is shared on tiktok, ive noticed people asking why do disabled people need a pride flag, or saying that we dont deserve one because we are "co opting" the gay pride movement... and i am honestly at a loss at what to say to them

capricorn-0mnikorn answered:

Okay, then: here’s some Disability Pride Talking points for you, when you come upon that assumption:

First: The Disability Rights Movement gained steam in the U.S. at the same time as the Civil Rights Movement was advocating for racial equality, and the Women’s Rights movement was advocating for gender equality – all in the same decade as the Stonewall Riots.

Second: it may seem like Disability Pride Month is “copying” Queer Pride Month, because July comes right after June. But the reason we celebrate Disability Pride Month in July is because that’s when The Americans with Disabilities Act was signed: on July 26, 1990. This was the first Disabilities Rights act in the world. It was followed in 1995 by the Disabilities Discrimination Act in the U.K., and in 2019 in Canada.

Third: on April 5, 1977, the (American) Nationwide 504 Sit-in (Wikipedia article) began, to protest the fact that three presidents in a row had been stalling for four years to implement Disability Civil Rights legislation. Disability advocates staged sit-ins in Federal Buildings for the Department of Health, Education, and Welfare, in Atlanta, Boston, Chicago, Denver, Los Angeles, New York City, Philadelphia, and Seattle, San Fransisco, and Washington D.C..

The sit-in in Washington D.C. lasted 28 hours. The Sit-in in San Fransisco lasted 25 Days, and remains the longest occupation of a Federal Government building in U.S. History (It was epic). The civil rights group The Black Panthers also helped with logistical support.

The police tried to force the people inside to leave by cutting phone lines, forgetting that there were people who knew American Sign Language both inside the building, and outside, in the crowd, and they relayed messages back and forth through the windows (excuse me while I take a Cackle break).

Finally: Disabled people are human beings, and deserve all the human rights as everyone else. But a lot of people in authority, look at our lives from the outside, decide that we already have a low-quality of life (without actually asking us), and deciding that it wouldn’t be so bad if we died. You know, at the start of the COVID-19 outbreak in this country, it was a fairly common policy that if hospitals ran low on ventilators, they’d just take them from disabled people who needed to use them every day? Remember that?

That’s why we have to get loud.

mxlexifer

This july support your local disabled person by shutting up and letting us have our pride ❤️

disability pride month
lilliths-httyd-blog

A personal response to bad fic comments

chromatographic

So I’m in fandom spaces basically all the time, this is not news if you know me at all. It’s probably why you follow me. 

In the past 6 months - 1 year, my friends and I have been noticing a bit of an uptick on Bad Comments to our fanfics. We’ve noticed this on our fics. We’ve noticed this on other’s fics. 

We don’t have statistics - that’d be near impossible to collect, anyway, but it seems they’re on the rise. As I’m starting to publish more fic lately, I want to share my personal policy on this - and that is the fact that I’m not going to tolerate bad comments on my fanfic.

(I will happily also step in for other fanauthors, as well - though I do only do this with permission of the fic’s author.)

My stock reply to bad comments is below. You may borrow and use it freely, no credit needed.

Dear Human,
You have left the type of comment that falls into a category we fanauthors call entitled. If you would like an explanation on how your comment qualifies, please press 1. If you require advice on how to leave better comments, please press 2. If you would like to argue that your comment does not qualify, please hang up and never call back. Rude or entitled responses from you in the future may lead you to be blocked. This is your only warning. Have a nice day!

If the comment isn’t “entitled” but falls into another bad category, it’s usually outright harassment and will get both an immediate block and a report to AO3, or whoever the hostsite winds up being.

I have three questions I ask before sending this message:

1. Did they say anything at all about the fic they’re commenting on, and was it nice?

For a bad comment, the answer to this is “no”.

2. Does the comment ask or demand something of me, as a fanauthor.

For a bad comment, the answer is “yes”.

Comments that are entitled will have both qualifications. They will get the stock reply above.  If they only fit one of the questions, I will consider a more mollified report. 

I already know what people are going to argue when they read this - 

But Chroma! What if the commenter doesn’t know any better and is young/new/neurodivergent!

Okay first of all, I am autistic myself and am perfectly capable of fucking manners and learning social norms, so I resent the automatic implication some of y’all have that all neurospicy people are inherently rude or vice versa. 

Secondly, that is why I left the phone options. If the commenter wants to be better they can use them as a jumping off point for the future conversation. If they legitimately want to learn how to not be a dick in fandom they can reach out.

But Chroma! What if the commenter didn’t realize what they were doing wrong?

They they can politely go “oh shit, my bad,” apologize to me, and leave a real fucking meaningful comment.

If you want to use this policy, go ahead. If you don’t, that’s fine too. If you think that this is a piece of shit policy then feel free to ignore this post and, in the future, everything I say and write.

In the meantime, I’ve been in fandom for over two decades now. So this Fandom Old is gonna enforce etiquette in her spaces and live her best fandom life.

Have a good evening, everyone. 

embervoices

For me, I’d want to distinguish very clearly between “politely requests/expresses a desire” vs. “demands”, and I’ll probably write my own stock reply, but yeah.

The thing is, we’re responsible not only for our intentions, but also the actual results of our actions. I won’t say intent doesn’t matter at all, but it doesn’t undo the harm caused. And it’s not the responsibility of the hurt person to do the fixing.

So yeah, it might sting to get this boiler plate reply to an unintentionally bad comment if you honestly were doing your best, and that’s gonna suck for you.

But your response at that point needs to be to get some uninvolved person to go over your reply and help you suss out what happened. The person who was hurt isn’t the person who is responsible for making you feel better about hurting them by accident.